According to Alzheimer's expert Naomi Feil, if you're feeling alone and someone enters into your world and you look at them and you communicate with them, there’s a wholeness that comes about, there’s a feeling of, ‘I am wanted, I am needed, I am complete.’
Naomi Feil begins by caressing the face of her patient as a mother would her child – wiping away a tear, letting her know she’s not alone. Then she begins to sing quietly:
“Jesus loves me, this I know / For the Bible tells me so.”
Spiritual healing is often stereotyped as a belief in miracle cures. Sometimes healingcan come quickly. At other times it takes persistence and gaining a deeper spiritual understanding. Here’s one young woman’s story of her journey to full freedom from manic depression.
'Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.' Despite the fact that nearly every critic on the planet gave it an emphatic thumbs-down (current Rotten Tomatoes Tomatometer rating: 26%), “Fifty Shades of Grey” still managed to rake in more money over the Presidents Day weekend than any other movie in history. Go figure.
That’s a message that must be heard more widely because suicide is a growing healthcare concern. In a first-of-its-kind report, the World Health Organization recently reported that 800,000 suicides are estimated to occur worldwide each year.
Weekly snowfall has become the norm in my Boston suburb. Even the hearty Canadian transplants are starting to weary of our endless winter.
The historic snowfall has spawned jokes (free snow!), prompted neighborliness, and made school closings the norm rather than the exception. Some cabin-fever Bostonians looking for an escape have even taken to posting videos as they fling themselves from their second story decks into huge piles of fluffy snow. (This resulted in a stern safety warning from the mayor.)
Qualities of thought such as sincerity, gratitude and honesty are essential to stimulating the mind and revitalizing the body. There was a time during the late Middle Ages when anyone with enough cash on hand could appeal to the local church “pardoner” for the remission of their sins, in effect buying their way to heaven. The bigger the pardon (for instance, salvation from eternal damnation), the larger the donation, ensuring, if not a rosy afterlife, a well-funded Crusade and a first-rate cathedral.
It’s a question that keeps crossing my mind as I scan the news. Do I believe the politicians I’m reading about, or the news anchor, or the sports figures, or the celebrity, or the health claims? Am I getting an honest view? How long until someone sifts through the allegations and evidence and comes to a conclusion? When will we get to the bottom of this?
The story of St. Valentine serves to encourage us to look beneath the superficial meaning of cards, flowers and chocolates to a deeper, healing love.
The legend that inspires our annual celebration of love on Valentine’s Day focuses on only one aspect of an interesting man – as if romantic love is the only thing for which we should remember this patron saint.